OMG, I JUST GOT EDUCATED. Never heard of "private-list sexual" before. Interesting stuff. In a way, I wonder if everyone isn't like that, to some degree - but, well.
Labels are just boxes to me, and I've never been a box person. But some people like boxes, I don't know. (Jim likes boxes perhaps, and that's the problem, I guess?) There came a point where I just stopped trying in that arena, until I was dating a guy that INSISTED (long story, but I guess it was necessary). My life is too complicated to keep worrying about that crap. I feel like it creates too much drama, which is nice for your story, but sucks in real life. Poor Kirk and Spock don't need that shit, either. But you're the author, and OMG YOU MEANIE YOU. ;) I guess I'll see how you let this play out... should be interesting. ♥
YES, YES, PREQUEL. AND KIRK/SPOCK PARENT-MEETING. ♥ Now you've filled me with anticipaaaaaaation. ;) I guess I'm not familiar with the fic-thingy-a-jiggy you're writing the prequel for, so are you waiting to post it until after the story is done in entirety, or will this be a treat during one of the chapters? (Like Othersides, which I totally loved, ya know. ♥)
Well... childhood. There are certainly points about that which I agree, and then some that I do not out of obstinance on my part. I read your entry, and - shit, darlin'. I'd offer internet hugs, but you'd probably not want them. (They're kinda tacky, eh?) I mean... I don't know. I'll think about it. Your entry was really triggering in a way, so I'm trying to think of something helpful. I guess childhood obviously influences people, but then there are the types who try to outrun that shit, live it subconsciously, or embrace it fully. Is Jim the embracing fully type, and Spock the subconscious type? Or is it the other way around? (I'm thinking out-loud, lol.) You can't escape it, either way. And yeah, I'm still screwed, but it's okay. ♥
GOT THE EMAIL. ♥ Have not started yet, because my sister woke me up this morning to specifically move furniture around, and I have not recovered since, LOL. (Stuff out of my routine scatters my brain to the winds.) But I will certainly look at it ASAP, and I'm sure I will love it like whoa. NO WORRIES. ♥
AND OF COURSE WE OBVIOUSLY ROCK, how could I forget? SILLY ME.
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Labels are just boxes to me, and I've never been a box person. But some people like boxes, I don't know. (Jim likes boxes perhaps, and that's the problem, I guess?) There came a point where I just stopped trying in that arena, until I was dating a guy that INSISTED (long story, but I guess it was necessary). My life is too complicated to keep worrying about that crap. I feel like it creates too much drama, which is nice for your story, but sucks in real life. Poor Kirk and Spock don't need that shit, either. But you're the author, and OMG YOU MEANIE YOU. ;) I guess I'll see how you let this play out... should be interesting. ♥
YES, YES, PREQUEL. AND KIRK/SPOCK PARENT-MEETING. ♥ Now you've filled me with anticipaaaaaaation. ;) I guess I'm not familiar with the fic-thingy-a-jiggy you're writing the prequel for, so are you waiting to post it until after the story is done in entirety, or will this be a treat during one of the chapters? (Like Othersides, which I totally loved, ya know. ♥)
Well... childhood. There are certainly points about that which I agree, and then some that I do not out of obstinance on my part. I read your entry, and - shit, darlin'. I'd offer internet hugs, but you'd probably not want them. (They're kinda tacky, eh?) I mean... I don't know. I'll think about it. Your entry was really triggering in a way, so I'm trying to think of something helpful. I guess childhood obviously influences people, but then there are the types who try to outrun that shit, live it subconsciously, or embrace it fully. Is Jim the embracing fully type, and Spock the subconscious type? Or is it the other way around? (I'm thinking out-loud, lol.) You can't escape it, either way. And yeah, I'm still screwed, but it's okay. ♥
GOT THE EMAIL. ♥ Have not started yet, because my sister woke me up this morning to specifically move furniture around, and I have not recovered since, LOL. (Stuff out of my routine scatters my brain to the winds.) But I will certainly look at it ASAP, and I'm sure I will love it like whoa. NO WORRIES. ♥
AND OF COURSE WE OBVIOUSLY ROCK, how could I forget? SILLY ME.